Sunday Stewardship: Thought For The Day
“Down time makes us able to ponder, plan, be purposeful & pleasant”
Why don’t I remember that?
I keep forgetting little things that matter on the home front this Holiday Season
I’d like to stop
I mean, it IS December 23rd!
So I am in FORCED Down Time for at least 20 minutes
No skiing today. No baking. No shopping (well, maybe;), NO DECORATING (please? NO)…no…anything….for at least 2o minutes Ann!
I LOVE to ski. Fast, clean air, bad weather, good weather…something about the freedom of it fills me…
Reasoning with myself:
Do I need any more proof that down time, especially during the Holiday Season is CRITICAL than my own missed steps?
Down Time = makes us able to ponder, plan, be purposeful & pleasant!
Pondering my REAL family, not my imagined one…Grandmother’s book & bench…
What is important over the next 72 Hours? Our Homes are where it all begins….those who live with us in our custom creations know what we are really made of. What is important to you & to those you love? Down time (even 20 minutes alone) will help you figure it out, remind you of what you already know & how you can customize the experience you long for.
72 Hours isn’t a lot. No buying another tree or making cookies that have to set overnight…..DO take the time to plan what you pondered as important. Show someone. Be accountable & ask for help! Teenage boys can learn to wrap. They play video games with mad skills…we KNOW the dexterity exists.
3. Be Purposeful
Traditions are wonderful, if, as a grown up – YOU decide they are what YOU want to live with & embrace. Toss the ones you don’t really believe in your heart are contributing to the Family you are today. Embrace the traditions you love – but customize them for today. Better 2 Family Traditions with heart & soul than 4 done poorly with a grumbling leader.
…..so you can be 4. Pleasant
Ummmm…..I confess there was a year when Mrs Claus was rather cranky on one Lake Tahoe Cabin Christmas Eve. Santa had REALLY enjoyed the River Ranch Meal after a full day of skiing & candle light services in the snow….& those Hudson Bay Blankets called……so Mrs Claus & some faithfully equally “warmed” assistants were out building a custom ice rink in the back yard ala 2 am……
This is not ours, but I had a vision of something like this…ours was more “obtuse”…let’s just leave it at that ;)!
Ponder = I took the 30 minutes to be alone and think about what would bless my REAL custom family rather than just my VISION of my custom family
Plan = I dropped some things that weren’t part of what I realized in the “ponder” section. I am not skiing today so I can be purposeful. It’s actually freeing.
Purposeful? I dumped my need to have all the wrapping paper match the custom ribbon on the tree. (yes, I am indeed a Designer). THIS was (IS) hard for me, but I simply did not have the time this year……
So I am more pleasant. Why? I am not being pulled into thinking I need to create an experience for everyone around me….I realize I am not the entertainment chief…I am the “walk along side you” in this life we are living wife, mother, designer….chief
May YOU find the things that matter to you as you build your custom life & are pondering, planning those Holiday Traditions over the next 72 Hours.
And if you see me in Tahoe buying wrapping paper with reindeer, STOP ME :)! and I will do the same for you…
“Live a custom life. There is only one you.”™
ps. the ice rink was really cool…..;)