Frugal Friday: Number 1 Roadblock To Understanding What Frugal Decor Really is
You know I love value
You know I love finding a bargain
You KNOW I love beautiful things…yesterday I shared a Couture Gown for heaven’s sake…not exactly Frugal Friday material there…
James Galanos. A legendary Designer. The construction of his clothing was nothing short of incredible. From the outside they looked effortless. From the inside, the quality of stitch, seam, construction…impeccable.
In the genuine pursuit of living an intentional (sometimes literally frugal) decorated life, I want to share the single biggest roadblock I come up against when Clients try to get a handle on spending serious money for things their heart delights in.
From Forbes. One of the most expensive hotel suites. If you had paid to stay here, would you use the space or just look at it & not “muss” anything…
I call it “The Beautiful Issue”
It’s actually part of my Decorating Systems Program…and YES, “The Beautiful Issue” is in fact the title of the module…
What about this hotel room? Another in the “most expensive” column via Forbes…
It goes something like this:
One of the things we come up against is the “Beautiful Issue”
“Oh, that’s a beautiful room…I could never throw a casual party in it”
Ok, you might get a pass from me on this one but only because it’s considered an artifact. It sold for over 4M. Foundational Truth? YOU are still worth more than this could ever be. If it was in your home I would counsel you to live with it, not worship it. Silk Isfahan Rug. Image linked via Christies.
“Oh, that’s a beautiful room…I could never drink red wine in it”
I was blown away the first time I went to a home and “no red wine” was served because of the decor. I nearly broke out into laughter, until I realized they were serious! Religious reasons? No problem! But “the decor”?! If you can drink red wine in Windsor Castle, you may drink wine in my home…….YOU are worth more than my sofa or flooring material. You just are.
“Oh, that’s a beautiful sofa, I could never take a nap on it”
“Oh, that’s beautiful fabric, I could never let my grandchildren sit on it”
Oh, that’s a beautiful (insert any item here), I could never (insert any item here) on it, in it, around it….
You get the picture
What is my Frugal Friday contribution to “The Beautiful Issue”?
I was trained, much as I suspect many of you were, to LIVE with beautiful things and to use them
It is FRUGAL to use things
It is WASTEFUL to worship things
So if there is one take a way for this weekend, it’s this…
Use the beautiful you thought you couldn’t
Use the beautiful you forgot you had (I am guilty of this…)
If you perceive it is too valuable to use, then you have assigned a THING more value than a PERSON, not ok
And this coming from a gal who has fabrics in her arsenal that cost more per yard than her first car…
THIS is designed to make you smile…can you guess what the first car I drove was? A very old hand me down many miles on it Ford Pinto. I would just like to go on record as Thanking the Lord I am still alive ;). If you are too young to know about the Pinto, it was the cosmic joke of the 80’s via the 70’s. And I thought I was the bomb cause I had access to wheels….
I also have fabrics in my arsenal that are $7/yard.
Frugal depends on usage. Real life living. If I am not using the $7/yard fabric, no matter the cost it is still not frugal
What is your Frugal Luxe item you live with and love each day?
Is it a fabulous sherry glass?
A magnificent chair you sit in?
A Royal Crown Derby Place Setting you enjoy daily?
Frugal = Cost/Usage
Cost DIVIDED by usage…therefore, the more expensive the item…you get the picture….
What is that inexpensive thing, your proverbial “$7/Yard Fabric” that goes unused?
You are the most expensive thing in your home (in a good way;). You have the most value. Your beautiful things are there to work for you, not the other way around.
“The Beautiful Issue”
“Live a custom life. There is only one you.”™