Wednesday Style Points: Couture Chateau Decorating Principle # 4
Couture Chateau Decorating Principle # 4: Decorating Needs To Be Authentically You To Inspire
I love kitsch
I also love couture
No problem here with the combo, it’s who I am
I think of them as Humor + Grace
Kitsch = Humor
Couture = Grace
What could be more fun than the combination of the two?!
For me? Nothing!!
A Dining Room with an antique Dining Table & a Home Goods Soup Tureen?
A Kitchen with 3 Antique French Painted Farm Tables & a customized Ikea Cabinet?
The point is, in order for your decorated space to INSPIRE you – it has to be AUTHENTICALLY YOU
You have to be ok “being”
And you have to be ok being SEEN
Can you change the world & then stop dead in your tracks when it comes to risk in decorating?
Where does the AUTHENTIC you live?
It’s this strange place
A lifetime spent crafting a shell for the outside world does not break down easily.
We walk through a manicured gated garden into a beautiful front door….and we are still afraid to be us??
We must be ok being SEEN
In my youth I didn’t understand why it was so difficult. I would decorate a home and people would flip out.
You can’t do that!
I can’t live like this!
Agghh! I love purple, but NO!
—-radio silence from me—-I have many faults—-RISK in design is not one of them—-
ANN: “Ummm….Client J, this is who you ARE. You love this.”
CLIENT: “I know”
ANN: “Then why won’t you LIVE this?”
CLIENT: “I can’t – I just can’t….give me the Hermes – or Prada – or Whatever….”
CLIENT: “YES! Please yes…please!”
ANN: “No. Why did you hire ME? You KNEW…”
CLIENT: “I don’t know, because…..”
ANN: “Then let me help you SEE – Let me show you YOU are OK BEING SEEN
It’s YOUR home. LIVE in it. As YOU.
If you can’t be SEEN in your own home, well…….we have other things to address….”
Over 20 years & I can surely tell you, these conversations are why I developed this PROCESS. This Decorating Principle Process. 30 Principles, 7 Areas.
I am kitsch + couture (today). What are you?
MANY – I’d say 90% of the Potential Clients we vet are afraid & say “oh, no thank you”
“I don’t want to get that involved – that takes too much time”
(What is My Decorating Principle # 1? Decorate with no more than 7 years in mind….)
“I just want a new tv room for the kids, it doesn’t matter, I want it to look like the magazine picture”
(What is My Decorating Principle # 3? Fiercely protect the heart of your home)
“That’s too much work, you just don’t understand what I have to deal with”
(What is My Decorating Principle # 2? Remove any item that is emotionally unsafe)
What I KNOW?
They are afraid to be seen.
For now? That’s ok. Grace is part of who I am. I have been there. Afraid to be seen….
The systems of getting at the CORE of who we are, who my clients are – getting them comfortable with being SEEN before we undertake the projects, before we line the underside of a desk in bright purple…are integral to my mission, my vision for Couture Chateau.
It’s WORK to build a custom life. I happen to think it’s worth it.
And need I state the obvious? What is it that you suppose is the INSPIRING part of those completed jobs?
It’s always the proverbial “purple”
Style Points. YOU have them. I love bringing them out, bringing them to life.
What is your purple?
My mentors bring it out in me. Let me bring it out in you.
Couture Chateau: “Live a custom life. There is only one you.”™