Thursday Spotlight: Designing A Custom Life That Works For Us
I have always had a passion for creating custom spaces + places that move people forward in their journey
It’s this weird thing when you “see” someone and immediately think…
“They need a Blue Bedroom”
“They need a private library space”
“An open concept kitchen isn’t really where they need to start…they should start by getting their formal entertaining spaces done…”
“I know they want a new kitchen, but they need to get their private spaces in order first”
I guess in the end, it’s why I do what I do
Why I am so passionate about this whole thing
Truth is we all need something slightly different in our designed spaces + custom lives
And that’s Beautiful
It’s a beautiful place to really see someone and help them create a space that makes them come alive
But lots of things can get in the way
Have you ever felt like something was holding you back from really getting the LIFE you were living in right?
All of those things CAN matter, but they aren’t really barriers in the end
Not if you are really conscious of living YOUR life
Truth is, I think the thing that keeps us from living in our Custom Lives
is the hard work of unapologetic self honesty
We really have to know WHO we are and WHAT we are about in order to create an intentional life
Yes, a process to be sure
But the process has to start somewhere
Of COURSE it changes over time….
It’s that moment when you go to the doctor & step on the scale
It’s that moment when your spouse or best friend looks at you and sees something in you that you’ve been trying to hide
maybe a hurt, maybe a fear
but they SEE
and we are vulnerable
What if I am rejected if I am self honest in my living?
What if I design my life as I think my soul is telling me and someone goes “ewwww”?
What if I choose the red sofa I really love – I mean absolutely love – and someone says “gag”?
What if I put up that inexpensive wall paper that I think in my heart is really cool – but it doesn’t have a label and my neighbor who has “great taste” comes over and says “icck”
You are still YOU
And YOU have something intrinsically beautiful + unique to bring to this thing called life
And that neighbor, friend…person…isn’t called to live YOUR life! YOU are
So forget that thing that holds you back
If you don’t bring YOU, remember, someone somewhere is missing something…
And so as 2013 unfolds for each of us – take a minute or several and really ponder IF there is anything holding you back from really living. Maybe nothing, maybe you are LIVING. Sweet. THAT warms my soul.
Let’s make 2013 a year we REALLY live as our custom selves
“Live a custom life. There is only one you.”™